Posts by Summer wine

Personally, I think they are ............and from an early age but why? From personal experience men need to feel loved, wanted and appreciated but have a bypass from romance. Is it just my husband or do you men feel pressured to be "be romantic"

I feel hurt, snubbed and unappreciated when I feel I need a bit more than " That was a nice dinner" (snore) im off to bed.

I am being a bit light hearted here, as some of you know things are more serious, BUT I want to know why women are more inclined to tolerated to put up with second best from the start. No kids, no commitment........................but still settle and want love and romance. I see it happen every day young girls and its never changes. They really think the arsole they are with will change.................young men never feel like this , why is it always the girls that want to settle down

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Could I get disfellowshipped for this?

by slimboyfat in

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ooops i think i went and did it this time.

could i get in serious trouble over this?

i didn't go to the meeting on sunday, and lazed about the house instead and listened to a bit of the meeting on the phone.

Summer wine

I would just deny all knowledge and say that they must have written down the address wrong

Are you sure they were "holiday" witnesses and not new the the congregation ? It could have been their first meeting

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Could I get disfellowshipped for this?

by slimboyfat in

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ooops i think i went and did it this time.

could i get in serious trouble over this?

i didn't go to the meeting on sunday, and lazed about the house instead and listened to a bit of the meeting on the phone.

Summer wine

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do you love me??......

by oompa in

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that is what i want to ask my jw wife now.....cause my sister (lesbian who left jw 35 years ago) does.....and several new friends here at jwd seem to as well.........so if she loves me....and they love me.....why can't they love each other too????......................oompa.

and why is my face so damm wet now.......dammit...........

Summer wine

Do you tell her you love her a lot aswell ?

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do you love me??......

by oompa in

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that is what i want to ask my jw wife now.....cause my sister (lesbian who left jw 35 years ago) does.....and several new friends here at jwd seem to as well.........so if she loves me....and they love me.....why can't they love each other too????......................oompa.

and why is my face so damm wet now.......dammit...........

Summer wine

Why dont you ask her, are you afraid of the answer?

I asked my husband if he loved me and he said "no" The pain was terrible, it felt like a physical stab in my heart.

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~ Positive thoughts, vibes, prayers this morning for my job interview ~

by FlyingHighNow in

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i am going to have an interview for a chirpractor's assistant's job this morning.

i was raised in a family of chiropractors and this looks like a good fit for me.

please send out the prayers and thoughts from now through the interview at 8:30 am and through out the day in the minds of the interviewers.

Summer wine

I really hope you get the job

Good luck !

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Let's Hear it For Simon -Thanks For This Board - And All it Accomplishes

by flipper in

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i think it's only appropriate to put out a thread to thank simon for the great job he does in moderating this board, watching over discussions to make sure that the purpose of jwd discussion stays focused .

i believe that he and the mods do a great job in helping this board along in it's journey - and enables us to have the freedom of speech- without having fear of reprisal - as long as the guidelines are met.

so, i for one would like to personally thank you simon - for bringing this board into existence, as it has helped many to be able to vent after leaving the jehovah's witnesses cult, and get support, and for others it has helped them have a great place to discuss many important topics that have a heavy play in many of our lives !

Summer wine

I have seen many exJW sites come and go, some start off really good, but deteriorate because they dont feel their sites should be moderated . This board shows how well balanced the moderation is.

So a big thankyou from me

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Encounter With Two Lovely, Smiling Jehovah's Witness Ladies

by snapdragon4 in

ive viewed this site from time to time over the years and thought it was about time i made a contribution.. last monday morning, glorious day, i was on the phone when the doorbell rang.

two happy, smiling jehovahs witness ladies.

they agreed to call back in ten minutes.

Summer wine

I would not have been able to give a name of one of the governing body either !!

Well done.

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Any Have Witness Spouses who Freaked Out When You Missed Meetings ?

by flipper in

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i mean , really freaked out !

you just have to tell your boss you can't go to the job out of town !

so , i did go on the out of town job, went to the memorial, however that was not enough.

Summer wine

I feel a bit guilty, cos I use to give my husband a bad time. He missed quite a few through his job and I got sick and tired of being questioned at the meetings about why he wasnt there again.

I do remember one period when I didnt want to go to meetings and he said he was going to the elders !!!! He says he doesnt remember.